Life in Harmony-Trevino Homestead

Life in Harmony-Trevino Homestead

Friday, December 20, 2013

I could be a gypsy

One of my favorite shows...
it's so horrible but so addicting.
Gypsy Sister's
I am fascinated with other cultures and gypsy live an interesting lifestyle. 
They are proper and domesticated housewives
but psycho hooligans when it comes to drama. 
I could be a gypsy
scratch the domesticated housewife title and it's me
Is that crazy? No?


my girls had their winter parties yesterday at school
who am I kidding? 
That wasn't a party
It was crap
if your kid attends the same school,
Ask for your $6 per kid refund
I didn't pay it to begin with but 
it was so bad they should have paid me to be there.
my poor kids
the torture
Goldfish, pretzels, apples, M & Ms
that.is.it
no cupcakes
No sugar goodness
no red dye, gluten,  or preservatives
what.theee.heck
::sigh::
Oh and I was literally the ONLY parent there.
awkward


so my favorite fast food joint caught fire
you know...
yo quiero taco bell *insert Spanglish accent*
The best darn cat food I ever ate
burned
shut down
now I have to drive an extra 8 miles (yes I counted)
To the next closest one

I would add a picture for your viewing but I'm a Sprint customer
the service is awful
they've been working on the towers since 1999
apparently. .since then..it will be working tomorrow

::crickets::

I went to Walmart to buy cat food
because I'm a cat hoarder I get excited when I see other people buying cat food
I want to be their friend
them...
not so much
well except one time I talked for half an hour to an old guy guy with
20+ cats
wow
that's a lot of poo

speaking of poo...because I know you want the details
my daughter screamed for me the other day

kj: mooooooom!!!
Me: whaaaaat?
Kj: ugh mom I have congestion. ..
me: huh?? Congestion? ?
Kj: yeahhhh it's making my tummy hurt

oh bless her heart. Congestion. *snickers*
;)

I'm so glad my husband is home.
without him my house looks like a trash and cat hoarder house
sad. But true.
I hate cleaning
My husband loves it
poor guy didn't realize what kinda woman he was marrying.

speaking of men...
saw some dudes walking into a nail salon today
please Lord don't let my son be THAT man
it's so...weird
to each their own but 
I like my man...
A man
rough, tough, dirty, rugged
man.
not a pretty boy
pretty boys don't get dirty
that creeps me out.

Any of you ever had an MRI?
30 minutes of blarring in your ears.
it GAVE me a headache
the whole reason I was there.
The guy asked if I fell asleep. ..
uhh no I was in a deaf coma
who sleeps in that thing?

Well any hoo
as Sprint says...
Catch yall up tomorrow ;) 






Sunday, September 15, 2013

Let them be little

Today my "baby" turns 9
I made a video with just a few
of the precious memories from over the years!
Happy Birthday Amirah!!
I LOVE YOU!!!
 
BE SURE TO CLICK the square in the bottom right corner for a FULL SCREEN :)
 
 


Sunday, August 4, 2013

It's always something

I haven't posted in a while
well because I am either
lazy
or just a busy woman! lol
 
Poor Nate is sick.
If my kids don't have fifths disease or polio (I kid I kid)
they have something else
and todays lucky disease is
Hand Foot Mouth
 
interesting right? especially if you're a new mom
or not a mom yet.
Well it aint my first rodeo so I don't rush to the dr.
I knew it right off the bat when I spotted those dang blisters in his mouth.
GRR
Stupid illness attacking my lil man!
And knowing my luck one of my other million kids will get it too
 
 
see the blisters around his mouth? He has more all inside his mouth that
bother him so much.
 
 
The blisters are in clusters on his legs, buttocks, hands, feet
mouth, chin, and randomly over his belly and arms. :(
 
I HATE when my kids are sick.
I hope it clears up soon.
 
Oh on a funny note, he makes a new "angry" face at me
when I tell him "no". LOL!
 
 
ERMUHGAWSH
I cannot stop laughing!
He is so serious with this face!
I. am. dying!
 
Earlier this weekend I took my girls to take some pictures to promote Back To School Mini's
It was fun and the light was soooo YUMMY!
Not to mention my girls enjoyed just being themselves!
 

 
SWOOOOOOOOON <3
 
I wish they stayed small forever!
 
Oh and um I have been craving something sweet all day
and I nothing was making me happy so
I ran to HEB and looked at all their sweets
 
My husband said, "get a cupcake"
 
GET A CUPCAKE?
Like a single cupcake?
Why?
I want a CAKE.
A WHOLE cake
for myself :)
 
So I did just that...
I got my FAVORITE cake
and some cat litter bc I am still fostering kittens.
 
BTW can you guess what my favorite cake is?
Yellow..with fudge icing! YUM!
Oh and hubby and I argued over cake colors.
He thinks yellow and white are the same
I was like heck no buddy they don't even taste the same!
I even googled to show him they are in fact
different colors!
That man is stubborn lol
 
And yes, I still have kittens who needs homes
like asap.
BUT I am VERY picky
so like hubby said
they may end up just living here and becoming
outdoor cats. Ha!
Maybe they can keep the dang squirrels away.
4 cats outside! yep! haha
I am the CRAZY cat lady
 
Well this week is my vacation!
YAY!
 
Anxious for some beautiful beach pictures!
Then it is back to school for both me and the girls!
Pretty excited!


Saturday, May 11, 2013

Questions without answers

It has definitely been too long since I have written.
And I am sure a lot has happened since
oops
Let's catch up!
My hubby is home and has been home for awhile
He had a back injury
3 herniated dics to be exact
but he is doing much much better and will be returning to work shortly
::sigh::
How I have enjoyed him home these past few weeks

These are our kids! <3
I finally took their spring pictures!
Every spring I try to get all 6 together for a picture and
I was pretty excited about these!
Turned out cute!

So Randy goes back to work in the next few days.
He will be in Victoria though so I can visit often :)

I've grown quite the green thumb lately.
I am so obsessed with gardening
I LOVE it!
flowers, veggies, fruits, plants...you name it
i am on it!

I get excited growing from seed!
It is so rewarding to watch the little seeds I planted
grow into beautiful blooms!
AMAZING!
I know it sounds cheesy but
really
it's rewarding and so cool to see

We have had tons and tons of insane weather though so a lot of my plants
have needed some extra TLC


And every normal mom lets their kiddos play in the
dirty street water after every storm  :D


The girls are still in gymnastics and they love
every bit of it
And I may be partial but
they are good at it too!

Amirah also recently joined swim team
I wanted her to join Katy Aquatics but
it was confusing so we just joined
our neighborhood team
and it is going great!
Amirah is such a natural
LITERALLY

This girl has had 0 swim lessons
and she swims with the advanced group!
she is self taught
never ever used floaties!
has lived in the water since a toddler
she swims in every season because it's
just natural to her and she is
and amazing!
ABSOLUTELY
AHHHHmazing!

she has such grace
it warms my heart to watch her
she will go somewhere with this skill of hers
i.just.know.it

she fell in the pool at 10 mths
and immediately floated...laid on her back, smiled, and floated
she found her happy place
I can barely get her out of the water
she is a walking Mermaid! :)
I guess I should have named her Ariel ;)



Kailah
well she's the same
spit fire and goof ball
sassy pants
complete smart ass
LOL
she teaches me something new
everyday!
The more pictures I take...the more I see myself

Nathan
well
he's finally sleeping in his own room like a big boy
he has night terrors so he has to have tv and a fan on because the
loud noise helps soothe him back to sleep
quiet scares him :/

He still wakes up at night but we just let him cry
and let him figure out that it's bed time and
mom and dad need sleep like he does
so he is getting the hint
slowly
He does sleep in late now which is awesome

He has also been seeing a GI dr at TCH
as well as a dietitician
He has had tons of blood work
stool samples
xrays
ultrasounds
allergy testing
etc
and we still have 0 answers to all of our questions

I'm glad I have a degree in the medical field and know
somewhat of what these results from the tests mean.

His vitamin E is low which means gastrointestinal disease, CBC is low which is anemia,
and his IGA is low which is a sign of gluten intolerance
The nurse and PA (dr is out of town)
suggested that they arent abnormally low enough to be worried
but to just give him probiotics.
Um what is with doctors trying to
tweak and mask diseases
why not fix the problem instead of just covering it up.

I really think he has a gluten intolerance of some sort
SO...
with heavy thought
I have decided to give him a gluten free diet as well as
lactose free &&
soy free

WISH.ME.LUCK
LOL

this sounds sooooo overwhelming but
I think it is what he needs
if not, it's trial and error
with food
not medicine
doesnt hurt to try.
Plus might help all of us to do the same.

so now I head off to go research and figure out recipes and grocery shopping.
fun fun
I

if anyone has shopping ideas or recipes to share
It would be great!

:)

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

procrastinator....who me? nahh


Before I forget....
Woo hoo!
 Dierks Bentley
::cheesey face:

Every year we make it a tradition to see
Someone at the Rodeo as a part of our anniversary ritual. 
We go early
I drink beer
He drinks soda lol
I eat fried oreos
He eats a turkey leg
We window shop
Then we watch a concert
Our favorite seats are field seats
We watch the rodeo
It brings back memories for Randy bc his dad did rodeo
This year we are seeing
Dierks!
I'm excited!
Although I'd kill to see my man
The one and only
Rebel of country
ERIC CHRUCH
It's ok...
Dierks will do (:

I just hope hubbs can actually go!
he is supposed to go back to work tomorrow but he told them
UM.no
we have plans
so he goes back EARLY (4-6am) Thursday
AND
be gone 3 weeks or whatnot.
 
I am STILL not use to it all
I get so lonely
the loneliness causes crankiness
and then I get BLEH
lol
but the as the OFW slogan goes
 
"I'm an oildfield wife...I've got this!"
 
Which brings me to this next topic.
I am part of an Easter card/gift exchange for some OFW (oild filed wives)
and I really want to do something cute and creative for the people I got
like a key chain maybe?
Idk
HELP
I need ideas!
 
 

So
all is well here at the Trevino household
nobody is sick
LOL!

I STILL havent had Nathans first year pics done
blehhh
BUT I am going to be the typical odd ball and instead of one year pics
we will do 15 mth! (:
eventually
haha

I am fostering a precious little pooch
we are like 85/90% sure she is doberman
though we just discovered she could be dobie/rott mix
she was found at a barn and she is as sweet as can be
I can tell she has never been around humans and therefore doesnt understand
how to act, how to eat, how to play
she's learning
and well
she needs a home soon
BUTTTTTT....
::update::
we may
or maynot
or may lol
keep her!
SHE IS PERFECT!!
 
We are having issues with Cooper (basset/schnauzer mix).
He is apparently the pack leader
alpha male dog
BUT is realy getting TOO dominant
Randy was locked out of the house the other day waiting on me to get home
He had to pee
went out back and peed behind the fence
Cooper showed him who runs the place and went and marked the spot where Randy went
oh. um. okay.
LMAO
 
 
I took all FOUR dogs to get vaccinated the other day. Holy moses my hand was on fire
Here are the weigh ins
Sam (toy schnauzer) 6 lbs! LOL
Tyson (english bulldog) 42 lbs (he lost weight bc of age)
Cooper (basset/schnauzer mix) 36 pounds at 8 mths!...he is STRONG
Brownie( dobie/rott mix) 26lbs at 5 mths! she will be HUGE!
 
They are all set for the year except the younger two who need to go back for one or two more boosters.

It took me writing on my new safety sticker to realize
WOW
we have tons of pets lol
Attention fire crew
please save
FOUR dogs &
THREE cats
::gulp::
 
Here's our "brown-girl" aka Brownie


So I have a serious biter
No not a pet
My kid
The youngest to be exact
He bites when he's excited
Angry
Tired
Sad
Or just because
Of course I am teaching him it's not ok but he doesn't understand 
This is his way of expressing himself and testing his boundaries
aMirah was always biten in daycare and now her brother is the biter
back then i didnt make a big deal
HUgs and kisses then move on
I know the daycare couldnt tell me who bit her and honestly
WHY does it matter
this is NORMAL behavior for the age group
the vampire stage is no biggie to me
HAHAHAH!
 But yes, I need to get this crazy toddler to slow his roll
he's like already in the terrible two stage.
He throws everything
screams
bites
shakes his head no
at everything.
He is
my workout
LOL!
 
 
I was going to make this HUGE delicious meal for dinner
BUT
just got the call from hubby who is 3 hours away that he wont be home until late
(staff meeting today)
sooo
do I still whip it all up?
or just order in?
make something else?
hmmmm
 
I won a bid online on some KA-YOOOOUUUUTE! pants for the girls
they are those precious triple ruffle leggings
these from Kangacoo
welll they are NOT
TTS (true to size)
BLEH! and as most of you know
my kids are VERY tall for their age so booo
I have to sell them and try to find something else
:/ 
 
I got a call today
from a SUPER long lost friend who I have missed so much!
We worked at the carwash together years ago and we lost touch when she quit.
well she found me
and I am soooo happy!
We laugh for hours on the phone
Her mom makes the best "i dont know what they are called but some sort of delish dessert from her country" ERRRMUHGAWD my mouth is drooling just thinking of them.
 
I am starting to decorate the house and I am excited about it!
The front yard is FINALLY coming along ::yay!!::
And I bought some super cute stuff off BBBS to decorate
if you havent checked out that page yet
Um what are you waiting for?
GO
like
yesterday!
HURRY!
FYI the Katy one...SUCKS! admin & the page. It's a lot of crap. sorry but it's true
I LOVE cypress! They have the BEST stuff and sweetest admin!
I travel for all of it! (:
I am painting my kitchen pantry right now and pretty stoked about it.
anxious to see how it all turns out!
Not many pictures on this blog today
too random
and just decided to write instead of putting together the pictures
 
WELLLL
I need to go make some dinner
whatev that might be
lol
 
I'll try to keep up with the blogs more
now that hubby will be gone
FORRRR-EV-ERRR again ::sad face::
"life of an OFW"
 
AND spring forward this weekend!
WHOOP!
 

Monday, January 21, 2013

IDK what happened to 4,5,6 but I'm still here

OOPS
Kinda got side tracked and didn't keep y'all updated with a new blog everyday
Well truthfully...
 
I had a lot going on (mentally) and just put it off.
Reading other peoples blogs helps me get back to what I love most!
 
WRITING! YAY!
 
Before I forget..
bless her sweet heart!
Amirah has ALWAYS been a sleep talker and sleep walker.
When she is REALLY REALLY tired, that's when it is worse.
 
We usually just walk her on back to her room
however it can get dangerous as she usually ends up walking out the front or back door.
 
Like tonight...
she is exhausted as she had a super fun day with a friend
Well she came home and went straight to bed.
I stay up late
ya know,
Facebookin & Pinnin' :giggles::
 
Next thing I know I hear the front door opening and my heart sinks to my stomach
I go into full raccoon mama mode
flyng over the sofa like a squirrel monkey
only to see
Amirah...
sleep walking with her blanket trying to escape out the front door
She's asleep but she answers me
 
me: hey where are you going?
mira: huh? uhh taking my blanket to my room
me: you are going out the front door...
mira: *eyes staring blankly as she is in mid sleep* huh?
she walks to room where she collapses on her bed.
 
AHH! I always fear I wont be up when she does that...I need an alarm or something. :/
 
BTW I am watching Honey Boo Boo ( a marathon) as I write this
SO HILARIOUS!
I laugh everytime even if I have seen it a million times already.
 
So lately things have been..
well okay I guess
 
photography is slow
who am I kidding?
it's dead
stupid weather
 
Nathan is doing better...he still has a horrile cough but last week it was soooo bad
ended up having him tested for Pertussis
I will get the results back this week
Yes, he has 3 of his 4 shots
but he's still not protected
especially in a crazy world of anti vaxers
 
Poor guy.
But he is doing great now!
I still havent done any first birthday pictures but I want to wait until hubby comes home.
 
I did however pull out the camera
which took me forever to find under all the dust
and take pictures of my kiddos
OHmahgeeeerd
taking pics of your own children
by yourself
sleep deprived
and hungry (ok, ok kidding on that lol)
is HARD!
I will hire a pro next time! ::wink wink::
 
So hubby is back in Texas...he's working out at ..uhh
Pleasanton, Tx
Not sure if I ever explained what hubbs does but
he is a wire line operator
he builds 200 plus guns a day
these guns are built using dynamite which makes the job super dangerous!
::gulp::
Recently there was an explosion and it seriously injured two men.
It wasn't the company my husband was with
but my heart still aches for the families.
 
Right now they are working in contract with one company where their shifts are 24 hour shifts
He sleeps in a hotel in Beeville and works 3am-3am 24 hr shifts.
I never get to talk to him because he is either working or sleeping
occassionally we get 5 minutes for a quick chat
I will be glad when this job ends and he can come home and catch up on rest
Then when he goes back, they work with Shell
shifts are 12/12 (i think...who knows, oilfield is always the unknown)
YAY!
 
So as some of you know
I have been trying to get a job
Randy said I could stay home
BUT
no
I NEED one
for my sanity
so I have been applying but the positions go FAST! womp womp
I have faith though the right one will come along!

Ok I never posted this blog yesterday so we will do two days in one blog.
haha

Hubby surprised us this morning.
Bless his heart,
he got off his 24 hour shift at 3am,got to his hotel at 5 am
showered and
drove home to visit
it was nice seeing him for a few hours.
I'm like a highschool teenager
all shy and giggly
butterflies in my tummy from the excitement of seeing him!
we go weeks
and to finally be able to make eye contact
see each other
hug him
bittersweet

And even better to watch the kids squeal with excitement

The hardest part is saying goodbye.


His birthday is coming up and I have NO IDEA what to get him
not only is it his birthday
BUT
Valentines Day
& our 9 yr anniversary (not wedding, just time we have been a couple)

WHEW
I think I might do something creative
ya know
cute ideas off Pinterest
::insert heart::

So lately with Randy being gone
we have a little routine and I am trying to cut out junk from the house
not completely but majority
well except i keep a hidden stash for myself
muahahaha
but the kids LOVE Nutella sandwiches
bananas
grapes
veggie sticks (thanks Machelle!)
yogurt
and ABC pretzels


I also have them drinking lots of water
not to mention cutting sodas down for me as well
no wonder I have turned into a raging
beyatch
rAwR!
But coffee is a
MUST
I will not survive
without
no exceptions
and not any coffee...no, no
the one and only
Starbucks
delish!
bitter and dark with some sweetness is the way I like it!

I have the Verismo
and I LOVE IT!
saved me tons of money already!

Well I guess my rambling is down for the night...
I am exhausted!
and no pictures tonight bc BLOGGER is being weird
BOO on them!

Here's a question
What is something you cant live without?
 
 
 
 


Thursday, January 3, 2013

Day 3: Song of Solomon

rough night with Nate again
I don't know what it is but he just cant comfort himself back to sleep
it's not so much wanting the bottle but almost like he's hurting or having a bad dream
He has GI issues so I dont know if he flares up at night from whatever he ate or what's wrong
but he doesnt have an appointment until March.
 
And the girls are both about to go crazy
the weather is so dull
no sun
it rains here and there
and it's cold
They are so bored and ready to go back to school.
5 more days!
 
And as always,
it seems this year has started off to a rough start
Again
Randy got a call this morning
He leaves tomorrow sometime
well Randy being ...well Randy and not listening to his wife
haha
sold his truck
so...
he's without a vehicle and he has to be in Beeville tomorrow
Apparently they go to Beeville then drive up to PA to get their stuff and drive back down where they will work in Beeville or Laredo?
IDK
i am just as confused as you all are.
But it completely messes up our schedule
bleh
BUT we will get through it
They did get another contract!
yay
and it's
SHELL! *claps and does happy dance*
 
So today we just kind of hang out at home
he helps me do laundry
we kind of just walk around in silence though you can feel each others tension and sadness
ocassionally saying, "what if" or "i wonder if"..."maybe this will happen.." or
::sigh::
two months he's been home
and it's time for him to go again
not sure the schedule or how all this works but it's frustrating to someone who NEEDS a schedule
who plans everyday with a list
not to mention
we are a super close tight knit family
as much as we want to rip each others throats out
we long to see each other everynight
our routines
our traditions
it's rough
 
We did some heavy thinking and planning for our future
I can't be a SAHM
it's not for me
in fact, I really think it's why I am always so snappy
 
I love my children...Lord knows I would die for them
They are my backbone
my everything
the air I breathe
the reason I move forward in life
 
BUT
I was born to be in the work field
to make my share of money
and help with the bills
to be INDEPENDENT
and
to get my sanity back
SAHM is a difficult job
it's wonderful
but
hard
 
So I officially decided to get back out in the "work world"
I think it will make me happier and keep me busy
Prayers my way as I apply for this particular position I am hoping to get.
it's perfect.
the hours are awesome
the place is great
and
I can bring in some income ::Phew::
 
Oh and about an hour ago...hubby got a call that...well he leaves tonight
::sigh::
 
this is how it works
always
we never know when or where or how long
but it can make or break our relationship
9 years we have been together
and well
we are stronger than we have ever been
Like I said before...i'm not materialistic
Randys engagment ring to me was perfect
I didnt pick it
he did
it's not my style
but HE picked it
and omg I love it
 
When we got married we got out wedding bands and well about a year or so ago he took his off to wash his hands and he left it by the sink in a corner store.
oops
we both laughed...because that is him. His mind is always forgetting.
 
We decided to get new rings...well for him but I wanted to have matching someway
 
so we went with the Song of Solomon
"I am my beloved and my beloved is mine"
 
 
 

 
 
 
 
 
not the exact script but similar
 
it fits us perfect
We don't parade around our relationship
instead soak in each others silence
staring
smiling
and giggling
 
I am so glad these rings came in before he left
it leaves me with peace
 
you may all be like
"oh gawsh woman get over it"
 
and well no,
you get over it or exit the blog
 
I have a very strong bond with my husband
He is a huge family man
He NEVER in the 9 years we have been together has gone out with friends
He doesn't drink
He doesn't smoke
no drugs
he's faithful
he's an amazing father
He never puts me down
always compliments me
 
He works this job to support our family
and get us where we can settle and be comfortable
and we are so blessed.
 
 
so tonight before he leaves
I ask him what he wants for his "last meal"
lol
and I cook it and we sit at the table as a family and talk, eat, and enjoy each others company
explaining to the kids how long daddy will be gone and we arent sure when he will be back but when he does,
it will be a surprise!
And we will celebrate!
but we can Tango with daddy
and this time
he stays in Texas!